The Way Angry Words Create Distance and The Great Big Loneliness

“Loneliness caused by your OWN words!

Many of us were raised in an environment of anger. Our parents and neighbors showed their anger towards people on a daily basis. You may run across people that still feel that it is ok to insult and verbally abuse people as a way of communicating. When you come into contact with these people they’re always looking to say nasty words to you and walk away quickly…..

A few of these people I personally know, and they post things about how much they are suffering from loneliness, and things about not trusting people. I do not respond to them, because I know that they don’t think their words are part of the cause of their loneliness. They are now in the late forties, fifties and sixties. I have met some of these people with their children who have unfortunately taken the path of their parents with saying rude comments to people.

On one occasion my son was present, and was not happy by the way one of these persons was talking to me. He said Dad, how can you take that from them? I said son, sometimes you need to get closure from your past by witnessing it again in your present. He said, if they say one more rude comment to you,they’re gonna hear a response from me that will shut them up completely. I said son, there is no need to get upset. They are trapped in their own negative words, and can not innerstand that they’re only making their life and the lives of their children worse than it already is. I said we can only pray for those who teach us the power of positivity from their constant negativity. GOD allowed me to come into contact with these people early in my life, so that I would be able to learn, and then teach a powerful lesson in grace and kindness to you.

If you continuously verbally abuse people, and your getting older, and people sort of leave you alone more often then you like. You might want to check and see if you have a long trail of people who only remember the negative things you’ve said to them, and nothing else. YOU may not have the opportunity to walk away from people after saying rude comments. Because most people have already walked away from YOU, for their own GOOD ,and for GOOD!! You can always CHANGE your life, but if not, then know this. Words are very powerful, and they DO come back to you the same way you put them out.” – Watermeshaman

RA and Ruthie share an honest conversation about anger and loneliness during the holidays.

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Questioning Everything? So Are We…

It’s been a tough week for America.  Division and hatred “seem” to be rising.  Ruthie and RA chat about how this has been affecting them and leaving them to question a lot about their everyday world.  We invite you to listen below.

The Spirit Warrior Way in Today’s World – Arriale Starbird

The Yin and Yang duality of all creation defines our lives. Enlightenment does not occur by ignoring the dark, in favor of the light, but by integrating the truth and love from both polarities. To mature spiritually, we must see and be transformed by all of reality. Shamans, Masters and Mystics of ancient traditions had the wisdom to dance with their shadows, the courage to see all aspects of their natures, the beautiful and light, and the terrible and dark. The sacred calling of a Spirit Warrior is to transform dark into light, make the unconscious conscious. Total deep healing of your mind, soul and body can occur only when the split in your identity is merged. Arriale discusses Shamanic Energy Medicine tools of working with the forces of Light, for transformation, healing, and protection from intrusive dark forces, while you are on your hero’s journey.

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Things Are Not Okay!

PRAY WITH ME
I have been extremely silent with my words.

Like many of you, I have been wearing a very heavy heart as I observe the wars, the chaos, the rage, the tensions, and fighting all around us.

There is need everywhere.

Need for food. Need for housing. Need for equality. Need for more money. Need for peace. Need for love. And these are just a few examples.

It’s heart breaking to see the fighting, to see people so afraid of each other, to witness the division between families, races, cultures, men and women, the young and old. The us verses them.

Who yields? What’s the soulution?

Things are not okay!!!  We are in a crisis.

How can we get back to love?

How can we begin to start making some of these things right?

All I have are these words right now. But if you are reading these words. I invite you to pause and pray with me.

Let’s call forth a blessing of love and peace for our whole world and for all of our brothers and sisters. Lets hold our earth in our minds eye and visualize a happy healthy abundant planet where there is harmony and a balance of life between all peoples and all the living.

We can go there together. We can co-create this place where heaven exists.

We can begin heaven on earth by starting with ourselves… by looking for ways to be more peaceful, by intending more awareness, mindfulness, and compassion in our moment to moment existence, by looking for what’s beautiful in every moment. These simple steps can create profound shifts in the way we relate to our world.

Thank you for sharing this moment with me.

Angel Blessings to you.
La Shamanessa
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When Everything Feels Dark…

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.” – Desmond Tutu

“We are not here to curse the darkness, but to light the candle that can guide us thru that darkness to a safe and sane future.”-  John F. Kennedy


Ruthie and RA have their Monday Morning check in.  America seems divided on many fronts.  Is everyone really fighting the way the media portrays? What can a person do when everything feels dark? Listen below to hear the holistic mamacitas latest podcast.