The Way Angry Words Create Distance and The Great Big Loneliness

“Loneliness caused by your OWN words!

Many of us were raised in an environment of anger. Our parents and neighbors showed their anger towards people on a daily basis. You may run across people that still feel that it is ok to insult and verbally abuse people as a way of communicating. When you come into contact with these people they’re always looking to say nasty words to you and walk away quickly…..

A few of these people I personally know, and they post things about how much they are suffering from loneliness, and things about not trusting people. I do not respond to them, because I know that they don’t think their words are part of the cause of their loneliness. They are now in the late forties, fifties and sixties. I have met some of these people with their children who have unfortunately taken the path of their parents with saying rude comments to people.

On one occasion my son was present, and was not happy by the way one of these persons was talking to me. He said Dad, how can you take that from them? I said son, sometimes you need to get closure from your past by witnessing it again in your present. He said, if they say one more rude comment to you,they’re gonna hear a response from me that will shut them up completely. I said son, there is no need to get upset. They are trapped in their own negative words, and can not innerstand that they’re only making their life and the lives of their children worse than it already is. I said we can only pray for those who teach us the power of positivity from their constant negativity. GOD allowed me to come into contact with these people early in my life, so that I would be able to learn, and then teach a powerful lesson in grace and kindness to you.

If you continuously verbally abuse people, and your getting older, and people sort of leave you alone more often then you like. You might want to check and see if you have a long trail of people who only remember the negative things you’ve said to them, and nothing else. YOU may not have the opportunity to walk away from people after saying rude comments. Because most people have already walked away from YOU, for their own GOOD ,and for GOOD!! You can always CHANGE your life, but if not, then know this. Words are very powerful, and they DO come back to you the same way you put them out.” – Watermeshaman

RA and Ruthie share an honest conversation about anger and loneliness during the holidays.

How does one manage the Season of Joy in the midst of all of the heaviness and chaos we are affected by?

We invite you to listen to our latest podcast below.

Do Comedians Have the Right to Offend? with Alex and RA

“It’s a comedian’s duty to find the line and deliberately cross over it.” – George Carlin

Cafecito Break Live at the Hive with Alex Perez and Rosangel Perez

The Perez Sisters share their thoughts about comedians, society, and the scary overly politically correct culture they are seeing evolve in many places.

TOPICS:
*1984
*Is comedy on its way to becoming extinct?
*Our thoughts about comedy, comedians, and Roseanne
*President Trump and his politically incorrect ways…
*the Great Awakening is not Politically correct… it’s uncontainable
*The Perez Sisters ask you to look at the bigger picture, ask the bigger questions…
RA and Alex warn that censoring speech can and will “bite” us in our bunz

Reflection: What world are we creating for our children and future generations?

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Stress… Is It All In Your Head?

Rosangel and Alex invite you to listen below to their Cafecito Live at the Hive Podcast chat where they share an article, insights and suggestions about managing stress in these crazy chaotic times.

Source: https://www.sott.net/article/385543-Stress-its-not-in-your-head-its-in-your-nervous-system

What Love Has Become and What it Can Be

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” Dr Seuss

Cafecito Break Wed Live at the Hive with RA

RA talks about what LOVE has become to many… a game of what you can do for me and what you can provide for me…

But what about faith, and “sticking with it”
it seems like we give up on human beings too fast these days and for trivial reasons…

So how do we make this LOVE thing work? RA shares some insights and reflections she’s learned on her journey.

RA shares the importance of “practicing” being in social interactions, the importance of understanding and reading social cues that are so often getting misinterpreted.

RA shares about the awakenings of women… and what she has been discovering…. that “women” over time have been lured away from the home and if we tune into our innate wisdom, it will reveal great many things.

Listen below… Let us know your thoughts.

“Let’s fall in love with everything… with the trees with the birds, with this moment, with the fact that we can take a deep breath… blessing your body with the heaven of life” – la shamanessa

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“Why Don’t We Just Try Love?” – Kanye West

“If you trade your authenticity for safety, you may experience the following: anxiety, depression, eating disorders, addiction, rage, blame, resentment, and inexplicable grief.” ~ Brene’ Brown

In this podcast, the Perez Sisters share their thoughts about the Kanye and TMZ interview, why you might want to see the full video for yourself, and the valuable insights we can take away. RA shares why she thinks this video serves as an opportunity to unpack important conversations of this Great Awakening and asking the deeper questions.
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“Are You Feeling Free?”
Show Notes #kanye #tmz #greatawakenings
*Feeling majestic
*wonder woman cuff
*RA shares experience of jury duty detention
*RA and Alex share their thoughts about the TMZ and Kanye video.
*RA and Alex share positive perspectives and insights gained from watching the entire video
*Why it’s important to research and not just accept everything you read
*Explore what you resist and find out why
*Alex asks…”Does your emotional response have merit?”
*”The heavy suitcase that exploded”
*dark night of the soul
*politics with Trump
*Artists experiencing epiphanies
*healing from our rage and anger
*let’s stop yelling
*is it really mental illness?
*what is happening to entertainment and how much of it is really authentic and creative. How much is controlled?
*Why all of these conversations need to be had and heard.
*Who do you listen to? Who have you been listening to?
*Love/Appreciation is a higher currency than Money/materialism
*Many artists and people are awakening.
*Getting in touch with your divine current
*Finding meaning in your life
*the many layers of controlling systems we are a part of…
*being authentic
*the way your loved ones “add you up” – are they doing the math right?
*are you feeling free?
*Welcome to the Great Awakening 😉
*Our appreciation for TMZ hosting this interview and our prayers that *we can find a way to move toward healing.

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Alex and RA of Cafecito Break

“Why don’t we just try love?” – Kanye West

President Trump, Kanye, TMZ and the Great Awakenings

“Freedom is the right to tell people what they do not want to hear.” – George Orwell

DATE: MAY 2nd, 2018
LOCATION:CAFECITO BREAK WEDNESDAYS AT BEEHIVE OVEN WITH ALEX AND RA
SHOW NOTES:
*The small treasure of saying Good Morning
*Different kinds of smiles
*smiling with your eyes
*What is new and Good
*Love Shouts to the beautiful kitchen staff at Beehive Oven Biscuit Café – Williamsburg, Brooklyn who create the yummy food we eat.
*Why we love Bee Hive Oven – Family Community Restaurant
*A Question everyone asks us is “What is it that you are?”
*The Holy is Everywhere…
*RA shares thoughts about Kanye and recommends you watch the entire TMZ/ Kanye video…
*RA talks about the revolution/unveilings happening in Sports, Entertainment, Politics, Music, Spirituality, in relationships for example
*Why Pres Donald Trump serves a purpose
*The bigger picture and asking the bigger questions
*Slavery is happening today and bigger than ever
*How can we start healing?

love/appreciation
thank you
-ra