What Has Your Year Been Like? RA and Ruthie Chat #sandwichgeneration

Happy Holidays! CAFECITO BREAK with Ruthie and RA have an end of year discussion where they chat about their year, how they feel, what they experienced, what’s new for Cafecito Break and what they would like to experience for 2019. Find out why Ruthie says she is a part of the sandwich generation.

What has your year been like? Let us know and we might read your response in next week’s show.

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The Way Angry Words Create Distance and The Great Big Loneliness

“Loneliness caused by your OWN words!

Many of us were raised in an environment of anger. Our parents and neighbors showed their anger towards people on a daily basis. You may run across people that still feel that it is ok to insult and verbally abuse people as a way of communicating. When you come into contact with these people they’re always looking to say nasty words to you and walk away quickly…..

A few of these people I personally know, and they post things about how much they are suffering from loneliness, and things about not trusting people. I do not respond to them, because I know that they don’t think their words are part of the cause of their loneliness. They are now in the late forties, fifties and sixties. I have met some of these people with their children who have unfortunately taken the path of their parents with saying rude comments to people.

On one occasion my son was present, and was not happy by the way one of these persons was talking to me. He said Dad, how can you take that from them? I said son, sometimes you need to get closure from your past by witnessing it again in your present. He said, if they say one more rude comment to you,they’re gonna hear a response from me that will shut them up completely. I said son, there is no need to get upset. They are trapped in their own negative words, and can not innerstand that they’re only making their life and the lives of their children worse than it already is. I said we can only pray for those who teach us the power of positivity from their constant negativity. GOD allowed me to come into contact with these people early in my life, so that I would be able to learn, and then teach a powerful lesson in grace and kindness to you.

If you continuously verbally abuse people, and your getting older, and people sort of leave you alone more often then you like. You might want to check and see if you have a long trail of people who only remember the negative things you’ve said to them, and nothing else. YOU may not have the opportunity to walk away from people after saying rude comments. Because most people have already walked away from YOU, for their own GOOD ,and for GOOD!! You can always CHANGE your life, but if not, then know this. Words are very powerful, and they DO come back to you the same way you put them out.” – Watermeshaman

RA and Ruthie share an honest conversation about anger and loneliness during the holidays.

How does one manage the Season of Joy in the midst of all of the heaviness and chaos we are affected by?

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LOVE… It’s Definitely Worth It

They do exist! People who are good, and kind, and walk the path of the heart… Some of these people will be participating in our upcoming CAFECITO Prosperity Tribal Market 11/11/18 Why are we calling it a Prosperity Market?
Listen below to hear RA’s latest reflection about love, building trusting relationships, Kanye West, Taylor Swift, Who Should We listen to and what’s coming up for The Perez Sisters.

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RA Chats Identity Politics and #walkaway

There are some days I feel so frustrated with the direction of polarized politics that I get the urge to run for public office, But then reality sets in. I rather have your vote towards Cafecito Break. We are a brand of trust, critical thinking, community wellness, love, and integrity. That to me is priceless. ra

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In the End… RA chats By Stander Syndrome and Silence of Our Friends

“In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.

Cafecito Live at the Hive with RA

 

Relationship Blues, Boundary-less Relationships, & The Treasure Between Your Legs…

“Trust is like blood pressure. It’s silent, vital to good health, and if abused it can be deadly.” —Frank Sonnenberg, author of Follow Your Conscience

CAFECITO LIVE AT THE HIVE | with RA
LESSONS OF THE HEART
Topics include: Summer Solstice, Relationship Blues, Boundary-less Relationships, The Treasure Between Your Legs, One way relating, and muy importante… please be gentle and loving to yourself… 

Source: https://www.express.co.uk/news/weird/976972/Summer-solstice-2018-spiritual-meaning-superstitions-astrology-zodiac

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Muchas bendiciones,

RA