The Way Angry Words Create Distance and The Great Big Loneliness

“Loneliness caused by your OWN words!

Many of us were raised in an environment of anger. Our parents and neighbors showed their anger towards people on a daily basis. You may run across people that still feel that it is ok to insult and verbally abuse people as a way of communicating. When you come into contact with these people they’re always looking to say nasty words to you and walk away quickly…..

A few of these people I personally know, and they post things about how much they are suffering from loneliness, and things about not trusting people. I do not respond to them, because I know that they don’t think their words are part of the cause of their loneliness. They are now in the late forties, fifties and sixties. I have met some of these people with their children who have unfortunately taken the path of their parents with saying rude comments to people.

On one occasion my son was present, and was not happy by the way one of these persons was talking to me. He said Dad, how can you take that from them? I said son, sometimes you need to get closure from your past by witnessing it again in your present. He said, if they say one more rude comment to you,they’re gonna hear a response from me that will shut them up completely. I said son, there is no need to get upset. They are trapped in their own negative words, and can not innerstand that they’re only making their life and the lives of their children worse than it already is. I said we can only pray for those who teach us the power of positivity from their constant negativity. GOD allowed me to come into contact with these people early in my life, so that I would be able to learn, and then teach a powerful lesson in grace and kindness to you.

If you continuously verbally abuse people, and your getting older, and people sort of leave you alone more often then you like. You might want to check and see if you have a long trail of people who only remember the negative things you’ve said to them, and nothing else. YOU may not have the opportunity to walk away from people after saying rude comments. Because most people have already walked away from YOU, for their own GOOD ,and for GOOD!! You can always CHANGE your life, but if not, then know this. Words are very powerful, and they DO come back to you the same way you put them out.” – Watermeshaman

RA and Ruthie share an honest conversation about anger and loneliness during the holidays.

How does one manage the Season of Joy in the midst of all of the heaviness and chaos we are affected by?

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You Are More Than You Think You Are – New Podcast

Are you feeling it?

It’s not time to play small. Shine Your Light! You will never be quite ready. Do it anyway.  Take an action today.  Do it now! #makeitwepa

RA and Ruthie have an honest conversation about the messages they are receiving from deep within their soul.  The messages are getting louder and clearer…  Are you feeling similar messages?  Share below.

 

 

Questioning Everything? So Are We…

It’s been a tough week for America.  Division and hatred “seem” to be rising.  Ruthie and RA chat about how this has been affecting them and leaving them to question a lot about their everyday world.  We invite you to listen below.

The Spirit Warrior Way in Today’s World – Arriale Starbird

The Yin and Yang duality of all creation defines our lives. Enlightenment does not occur by ignoring the dark, in favor of the light, but by integrating the truth and love from both polarities. To mature spiritually, we must see and be transformed by all of reality. Shamans, Masters and Mystics of ancient traditions had the wisdom to dance with their shadows, the courage to see all aspects of their natures, the beautiful and light, and the terrible and dark. The sacred calling of a Spirit Warrior is to transform dark into light, make the unconscious conscious. Total deep healing of your mind, soul and body can occur only when the split in your identity is merged. Arriale discusses Shamanic Energy Medicine tools of working with the forces of Light, for transformation, healing, and protection from intrusive dark forces, while you are on your hero’s journey.

Listen below for Cafecito Break with RA and Special Guest, Arriale Starbird
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The Messiah Within

“Now begins another long journey…”

The world is unveiling and revealing much and at a rapid place and for many this is exhausting and overwhelming.  Where can we go for truth and spiritual faith? Perhaps, it’s time to go within and seek the knowledge that your internal-net has to offer you. RA and Ruthie invite you to listen here to their latest Cafecito Podcast. Please discern.  #downtherabbithole

“We are not here to curse the darkness, but to light a candle that can guide us through the darkness to a safe and sure future. For the world is changing. The old era is ending. The old ways will not do.

The problems are not all solved and the battles are not all won and we stand today on the edge of a New Frontier – a frontier of unknown opportunities and perils, a frontier of unfulfilled hopes and threats.

It has been a long road to this crowded convention city. Now begins another long journey, taking me into your cities and towns and homes all over America.

Give me your help. Give me your hand, your voice and your vote.”
John F. Kennedy

 

When Everything Feels Dark…

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.” – Desmond Tutu

“We are not here to curse the darkness, but to light the candle that can guide us thru that darkness to a safe and sane future.”-  John F. Kennedy


Ruthie and RA have their Monday Morning check in.  America seems divided on many fronts.  Is everyone really fighting the way the media portrays? What can a person do when everything feels dark? Listen below to hear the holistic mamacitas latest podcast.